Growing up society has always pushed the idea of finding the one, falling in love against the odds, whether its princesses kissing frogs or princes going on daring missions to rescue beautiful women in distress but like most fairy tales the story is only half told. Today I hope to clear the story up and make it more achievable for everyone, so you too can have your piece of magic and live happily ever after.
Some years ago I would have been the last person to speak on this subject and maybe that’s the case for you today but tomorrow can be different story, in life we can change our story anytime, we just need to take control, take responsibility, rip up our old story and start rewriting. In my previous story I was looking for my princess and maybe I found her but I was no prince, I was unable to stay in a relationship for even a year and every attempt was plagued with problems and arguments that just didn’t seem worth it.
Now my story is much different……………..
First i want make the point of why goal setting is important, think of the times you’ve been grocery shopping not taken the time to write a list and then you get home and realise ‘damn i for to get the …..’ and tonight dinner just wont taste the same. The same is with goal setting as we go to the supermarket of life we get caught up and without a list we end up with many things we don’t want and just few things we do.
That being said its time to get started.
1.Commitment When the commitment is clear, it shifts the focus of the people in the relationship because they feel secure and do not need to doubt their partner. When things get tough, they know that they are in-it together. This, working together brings progress which increases the belief that together they can successfully overcome their problems. … Read more